“He Chastens Whom He Loves”
by Michelle Stace
There is heart breaking
suffering all around us. It touches all whether directly or indirectly.
Many ask why a God of love would allow such suffering. But our God of love
is also a God of righteousness and judgment. Sin is not acceptable to Him,
nor is it overlooked. God is also our Father. Like a parent who disciplines
a much loved child so that it will grow into an adult of strong morals
and character, so the Lord does with us.
There are several reasons why God allows suffering. He uses it to root
out our deeply entrenched sins. He uses it to break us of self, to teach
us reliance and trust
in Him. He uses it to deepen and strengthen our relationship with Him.
If this life was always one of ease and sunshine, would we look forward
to the life to
come?
I don’t think so. Our soul would become selfish, fat and lazy. This life
is to prepare us for the next, it is just a stepping stone for eternity.
Suffering teaches us to recognize the shallow and meaningless and teaches
us to value those qualities that are lasting.
When the Lord Jesus lived among men, He was called a Man of sorrows. Why
is this? Jesus lived in a human body and experienced its weaknesses in
many forms. He saw a multitude of hurting people, many of whom would refuse
to come to Him. He suffered great humiliation on our account. But most
of all, Jesus carried the guilt of our sins. Have you noticed in scripture
that when Jesus was brought before the chief priests and Herod and Pilate,
that He did not defend Himself against the false accusations made against
Him? It is because He was guilty in the sense that He was carrying
every foul sin of every one of His children. Jesus bore this willingly
for us so that we would be acceptable to God, if we love and obey Him.
As God’s chosen ones, He knows what is best for us, He knows our needs
much better than we. As our Father, He has the right to teach us, to conform
us into His perfect image. It isn’t always pleasant and sometimes quite
painful, but so necessary.
We have all seen the tragic results in children who have not received
the
proper love and discipline and have been left to their own. Think about
that.
So rather than complaining (which is actually questioning the sovereignty
of the Master
over His creation) and losing heart when going through trials, it is actually
a time to rejoice! It is proof than we are
His children - that He loves us! It is a great
blessing to be “counted worthy” to suffer for the Father! It is a
time to look forward to growing closer to Him and receiving His comfort!